At first it may seem simple, stacking blocks, lining up trains all in a row, always wanting to drink from the “red cup”. These are some of the behaviors that parents report their child with autism exhibits. The reason can sometimes be because of their difficulty expressing themselves, they feel safe and with less anxiety when routines are set. Unfortunately, the real world does not always work that way, which can create frustration in both the child and parent.
Children with autism like routines. Keeping with the same therapists and schedule can help to minimize outbursts and problem behaviors. Sleeping in the same bed can help the child feel safe at night. However, wanting to always eat out of their yellow bowl, or always having to sit in the same place in the car may make the child feel better but would not be helping in the long run. A skilled behavior analyst can help with softening that rigidity as well as teach a whole new set of important skills to help the child develop and to make the household more typical.
Far too often people get comfortable with doing things to “keep the peace” in the home to the detriment of their child. A lollipop to prevent a tantrum here, going the long way to daycare there, may seem like minor occurrences but they can be powerful messages sent to a child with autism of how things “should” be.
Breaking children from routines can be difficult at first. It is not usually recommended to try it yourself. Enlisting the help of an experienced Board Certified Behavior Analyst can make all the difference. Along with a good therapist, the child can be gradually introduced to new stimuli and breaks in their routine, in a safe environment until the child no longer reacts so harshly to change.
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